Every relationship has experienced tough period and some of them break up. A lot of relationships break down just because he wants more space. How to get him back when he wants more space? You must find out the reasons why your boyfriend suddenly wants space. There might be family problems, a fear of commitment, insecurities or feels like losing controls, etc. Here are some tips you can easily apply to get him back when he wants more space.
First, you need to calm down and ask yourself do you still love him. If you do, the best possible thing to do is to play hard to get. And also show him if this doesn’t work out it’s his loss, not yours.
If you feel your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for you, then you could try to keep all the communication at a minimum level. You may have a conversation with him, but keep it short and brief. All the short and brief communications like text message, phone calls, and e-mails are like the reminder to him about how much he wants to be with you. And the key is he won’t feel overwhelmed with your presence like this as if you desperately trying everything to get him back.
His interests about you will eventually increase again if everything goes well. When you see his significant interests in you, then it’s time to start to go over the past experience. When getting him back, you need to be aware that you should only focus on the good memories in the past. Avoid talking about the bad experiences or anything negative in case it might create bad feelings between you and ruin all the work you’ve done.
You should also accept the fact if your boyfriend is not responding to you after you’ve done everything. No matter he is just not interested in you now or he really needs space you should just give it to him. On the other hand, if your boyfriend is more interested in you than ever, or you can feel his interests is gradually increasing, then you should continue to move forward for getting back together.
Once you see the right signals from your boyfriend, then it’s time to start to open your heart to him again. Let him know how you feel, but still don’t behave desperately during the process. Desperation is one of the most mistakes people make. It’s really a relationship killer. If you see the signals of the other direction then the best thing to do might step back and let everything happens as it should be.